Showing posts with label television. Show all posts
Showing posts with label television. Show all posts

Tuesday, December 3, 2013

The "21st Century Soap Operas"

As a child brought up in the 1960s and ‘70s, I remember the old time soap operas.  Shows such as “Days of Our Lives”, “Dark Shadows” and “General Hospital” bring back memories.  I could go on and on, but you get my point.  My mom didn’t watch these, but I do remember them very vividly just the same.

Today we have what I like to call the “21st Century Soap Operas.” Shows like “The Walking Dead” with Andrew Lincoln.  BBC’s   “Sherlock”, starring my daughter’s favorite, Mr. Benedict Cumberbatch, Also, “Sleepy Hallow”, staring Tom Mison and last but certainly not least, “Supernatural”, with Jared Padalecki, Jensen Ackles and Misha Collins.  Again, I could go on with more shows, but those are just a few.  The things these shows have in common are plenty of drama, good looking, sexy men and fan girls that go crazy over both the shows and these men.


My daughter, who is now 20, has made many new and close friends through these shows and her computer. The young people today tweet, blog and are on Tumblr.  They also text each other during these shows with the friends they have made through multi media.  They cry, complain and scream together.  They discuss and pass along pictures via the Internet about their favorite shows and the men they are literally “falling in love” with. 

Back in my day, we “fell in love” with guys like Donny Osmond and David Cassidy.  We had posters on our walls from Tiger Beat Magazine and 16 Magazine.  My daughter has posters on her wall as well, although they didn’t come from a magazine.  They came from being ordered via computer.  For instance she has a big poster of Benedict Cumberbatch on her wall like I had of Donny Osmond, although mine came from a magazine and hers came in the mail from ordering it through a computer. Everything seems to be done through the computer—including watching TV shows with a friend you met on the Internet.  Who, by the way, probably lives in another state.  The kids tweet and text during the show as if their friend is sitting right next to them and in a sense I suppose they are.  My daughter has a friend in New Jersey whom she has never met in person. They text constantly. They are now best friends.  It’s a new day and age for sure and it’s interesting to observe; technology has changed so much since I was a young girl myself.


The stars of these shows also tweet during their episodes as well, which creates more of an interest and yes even a frenzy from time to time.  Misha Collins from “Supernatural” is a perfect example of a star who tweets to his fans.  It’s a way to talk directly to their fans without being in the same room and that is quite amazing when you think about it. 

This interpersonal contact via social media is also good advertising for the star’s show and creates more interest when you get a personal quote directly from the stars themselves as you watch their latest episode with them.  No waiting for the next teen magazine to hit the stands!
  
When I was a young girl my friends and I would run to the corner store to get the newest edition of a teen magazine.  We would read it from cover to cover, pull out all the pictures of the guys we were in love with, and hang them on our doors and walls.  Now with the computer it has opened up a bigger world and you find more people with similar interests.

One thing leads to another, but a common thread today has become the computer.  I think it has made shows even more popular.  The stars of these shows tweet and that piques even more interest for both the actor as well as for the TV show.  This is also the new 21st century way of advertising and marketing a show, and provides a direct link to the fans who love them.  I can’t imagine seeing a tweet from my teenage crush, Donny Osmond, back in the late 1960s or early ‘70s.  I would have lost my mind the way these girls and guys do today when their favorite star tweets—especially to them.  Somehow tweeting seems more personal and a way to better know the show and the stars.

 I believe the computer today is a double-edged sword.  It can be used for good and bad, like everything else in life.  Although my daughter has made wonderful and close friends through the computer and these TV shows, you still must be careful.  I think my opinion is that in this instance it’s been more of a positive than a negative in our home, to have the Internet play such a prominent role in day-to-day life.  These TV shows are drama-packed and full of excitement just like the young generation who loves and watches them each week. The Internet keeps the fans’ interest and allows the stars to keep in touch with their fan base in a safe environment.  It also allows young people like my daughter to make new friends she would never meet otherwise.  It opens a whole new world we never had in my generation.  Is this more good than bad? It’s your call, but in this instance I say it’s more of a good thing.

Long gone are the days of walking up to the corner store to buy the latest teen magazine.  Those were the good old days, but we must remember that these are the good old days for our children.  Each generation becomes more advanced and things continue to change like they always do.  That’s how life has always been.  Technology advances and that’s the way it should be.  The next generation will be even more advanced with exciting new technology always changing.  Yes, these are indeed the “good old days” for our children and these are the memories that will remain with them for the rest of their lives.

May everyone’s memories keep them forever young and I don’t think there is anything wrong with that! 



Wednesday, March 4, 2009

Behavior Of "The Bachelor" Inexcusable, But A Lesson May Be Learned

People are buzzing about "The Bachelor" on ABC. I watched it unfold and if it was true and unscripted this Jason is a total disappointment.

I felt so bad for Melissa. My heart absolutely broke for her. If this was actually true, I hope Melissa finds true happiness because she deserves it.

I find this so ironic that the guy who was so afraid of being hurt could actually hurt someone else so deeply. Especially knowing how much Melissa has been hurt in the past. I remember how Jason's brother was so verbal about not wanting Jason hurt. Yet Jason turns around and does the same thing to poor Melissa. How ironic!

Actually Melissa is better off without this guy, and though she may not realize it he did her a huge favor.

Jason through this whole process kept mentioning his son, Ty. However, what kind of example does this set for this little boy? Jason didn't think about Ty nor Melissa -- just himself and "following his heart". I'm sure Melissa and Ty during the last several months had formed some kind of bond. He not only hurt Melissa, but also hurt his son. This is a very selfish person who thinks of nothing but himself. He acts like such a great father, but in reality he is no such thing. He didn't even try to work on the relationship with Melissa. The message he sent his son is that nothing is worth fighting for; just follow your heart and your head. What kind of example is that?


"The Bachelor", Jason Mesnick, and son Ty; what sort of lesson is being taught to the little guy?


Well, if Molly thinks he won't hurt her she is mistaken. Men like this are just interested in the flavor of the month. The "grass is always greener" syndrome. Certainly he is no one you would consider having a long term relationship with.

Melissa showed a lot of class and she can hold her head up high. The man who gets her is a very lucky guy. She is not only pretty outside, but also inside. I hope this whole experience doesn't change her. Because not all guys are like this and it's worth the wait for the right man. Jason is not a man he is a boy and needs to grow up. To do what he did to her on national television was inexcusable and nothing a real man would ever do.

So go ahead Jason -- follow your heart and head. You will fail every time. If you think that a successful realtionship isn't constant work you are fooling no one but yourself. As someone who has been married to the same man for 17 years, I can honestly say we have worked every day to keep our relationship going. It isn't easy and if you aren't committed to the other person it will never work. No, you aren't happy all the time. You have peaks and valleys, but you endure and work. Why do you work on the relationship? Because not only does it affect you, but it affects others. If there are children involved it's even more important to work and fight to have a successful relationship. Because the peaks are worth more than the valleys! Are you happy all the time? Absolutely not. Is it worth fighting for? Absolutely!

The lesson here is that anything worth having is worth fighting for.

Tuesday, November 27, 2007

"Stars" Dancers Truly Shined; Not So Much The Judges

Which star will win tonight on "Dancing With the Stars"? Well, your guess is as good as mine.

I think they all did a great job. This season they've entertained us, scared us, and made us realize they are just as human as the rest of us.

The judges seemed to be very cranky and critical last night. A little more so than usual. Of course, critique the dancers, but why be so cruel as they seem to be on occasion? The judges seem to be very snobby most of the time, and I find that very irritating.

Marie Osmond, mother of eight, age 48, made all of us over-40 women proud! On top of the grueling schedule of just being on "Dancing With The Stars", she had to deal with passing out on live television, her dad passing away, her son being put into rehab, and other engagements with her family. She smiled through it all despite the criticism and adversity she faced. In my book that makes her a winner.

Bruno Tonioli said Marie Osmond and Jonathan's dance was "the loopiest thing he'd ever seen". He also compared it to Baby Jane and the bride of Chucky. These comments were simply uncalled for and plain mean-spirited. This from a guy who is so animated he makes Scooby Doo seem like a real dog.

Even when these judges gave praise last night it wasn't whole-hearted.


Not bad for a 48-year-old mom!

After Melanie Brown's performance Carrie Ann Inaba still wasn't satisfied. Her comment was that she was expecting a hair more excitement. Again, Mel B has a new baby, and she has been working very hard with the Spice Girls. Cut these people a little slack! They've all had other commitments through the whole season of "Dancing With The Stars". I was so happy to see the Spice Girls in the audience boo Carrie Ann's comments.

Helio Castroneves got slammed for his sloppy footwork and hard landings. I personally found his performance very entertaining. Let's remember this guy is a race car driver. Give him a brake. Sorry -- a little play on words there!

I found the whole season of "Dancing With The Stars" entertaining and a program my whole family could watch. How many shows can you say that about today?

The only thing that could have made this season better was the judges not being so mean-spirited with their comments. There is constructive criticism and then there is just being plain mean. Five-year-old children know the difference; why don't adults?

My 14-year-old daughter, Nicole, was shocked by the mean comments. She was especially offended by the comments about Marie last night. I have to agree with my daughter; the judges went a little too far and out of their way to be nasty.

As far as I am concerned there are no losers. Every single one of them has worked hard. Not to mention the professional dancers like Maksim Chmerkovskiy, Julianne Hough and Jonathan Roberts who made these stars truly shine.

They should all be proud. All of these stars gave up time with their families to do this, and gave us many hours of enjoyable family entertainment. For that alone I thank them. I'm just sorry the judges didn't seem to appreciate it, but I'm sure many families at home did.

The only people left to redeem themselves tonight are the judges. Let's hope they do just that!

Tuesday, October 30, 2007

Tired of Today's Network Programming? Pick Up A Game

When I was growing up television shows used to be geared toward more family programming.

I used to love Saturday nights and the lineup on television. I remember watching The Bob Newhart Show and Mary Tyler Moore with my parents. My mom and dad would order pizza or some other fun thing to eat. Sometimes we would even make homemade pizza or bake fresh bread. It was our time together as a family. The shows back in the 1970s were funny and entertaining and something you could watch with the whole family.

The shows today aren't geared toward families. Nothing makes you laugh and it seems like the networks aren't even interested in family programming. All I see is violence and a whole lot of blood and guts.


"Umm, TV networks? Where are all the shows like mine, today?"

Is it any wonder why we have a breakdown of the family? Nothing is geared toward families today. You would think that there would be a market for some type of family entertainment.

If you have a family, most likely you are home on Saturday evenings. Most families can't afford to take the kids to the movies. It is just too expensive. What can you do?

What we have started is family game night. We turn off the television and pick some games to play. Our daughter loves Scrabble. It's something we do together and it is educational as well. It also gives us time to talk and laugh together.

What I do is make a special snack. Last week I made fresh veggies and dip and we snacked and played games. I try to make it special by making some sort of treat. One time we made S'mores together. It's fun and brings you closer with your kids.


Scrabble: Fun, easy family time that's also educational

What you can also do is have your kids pick a special treat they like, and all make it together. If you make things special and fun children usually love to get involved. I really do believe that children love family time and need it on a regular basis.

So here's a note to the networks. If you can't make programming for families, at least on Saturday night, then you get turned off. We can all have our own Saturday night lineup with our families. It will bring everyone closer.

So turn off the television on Saturday night and give it a try. I think you will be amazed how much your family will enjoy being together without television.

Have fun!!!